Where do I even begin? If I were John Irving, or Jeanette Winterson, or Angela Carter, or Haruki Murakami, I guess I’d begin with the perfect sentence. But the perfect sentence eludes me today. I am grateful for the day it is, at least I can say that much. Grey skies and rain. Not some […]
Tag: Depression

When Depression Takes Hold
Many moons ago, I shared a piece on my blog by way of advice for the loved ones of those suffering from depression… But losing a friend to suicide recently brought with it some serious contemplation on the nature of mental health issues. The stigma. The secrecy. The shame. The cruel but oh so intimate […]

The Gift of Cats and Dogs on the Frontline of Covid: A Love Story
So today, though somewhat late for Wednesday Appreciation Day, I thought I might say a very, very big thank you indeed to those furry friends who have been on the frontline, so to speak, in so, sooooo many ways during this strange and unsettling pandemic! Though they may not have the words to tell us […]

A Humble Survival Guide
There are no little things. ‘Little things’ are the hinges of the universe. Fanny Fern The dark has descended. As many South Africans know all too well. Thanks, Eskom. And with this, the candle has been lit. But instead of revolting against oh, oh, the inconveniences, I thought I might make the most of this […]
Dearest: No one Doubled to Some
Today I would like to share a poem a very dear friend wrote for me when I fell from the face of society for a small spell. He is not only a gifted poet and a brilliant mind, but the kind of human bean whose kindness and compassion know no bounds. I hope you are […]